Valentine’s Day, a day when you and your sweetheart remind each other how much you mean to one another. The day doesn’t have to be just for couples. In fact, for many it is an opportunity to go out and meet someone new.
Sadly, Valentine’s Day has also become another opportunity for scammers, hackers, and cyber thieves to wreak havoc. Whether you’re shopping on-line or looking for a match online this Valentine’s Day, there’s always an element of risk involved. There are many different types of cyber crimes, but in this article, we are going to talk about Romance Scams.
What are Romance Scams
Romance scams are when a criminal adopts a fake online identity to gain a victim’s affection and trust. The scammer then uses the illusion of a romantic or close relationship to manipulate and/or steal from the victim.
Criminals who carry out romance scams will seem genuine, caring, and believable. The scammer’s intention is to establish a relationship as quickly as possible, endear themselves to the victim, and gain trust. Scammers may often times propose marriage and make plans to meet in person, but that will never happen. Eventually, they will ask for money.
If someone you meet online needs your bank account information to deposit money, they are most likely using your account to carry out other theft and fraud schemes.
Reported Scams to the FBI
Believe it or not, according to the FBI, romance scams account for a high financial loss of all web-facilitated crimes. From January 1, 2021 - July 31, 2021, the FBI Internet Crime Complaint Center (IC3) received over 1,800 complaints, related to online romance scams, resulting in losses of approximately $133,400,000, yet the bureau estimates that only a fraction of crimes are even reported, putting the actualnumber much higher. It’s likely that people are too embarrassed to report they were scammed. – (Scammers Defraud Victims of Millions of Dollars in New Trend in Romance Scams)
Tips for Avoiding Romance Scams
Scammers happily take advantage of the peak of online dating activity between New Year’s and Valentine’s Day. They are spending time on apps and websites such as Tinder, OKCupid, Plenty of Fish, Match.com and others looking for their next victim. You should be aware of deceptive profiles.
- Be careful what you post and make public online. Scammers use methods of social engineering to gather information on you. They can use these details shared on social media and dating sites to better understand and target you.
- Do not disclose your current financial status, banking information, Social Security number, copies of your identification, passport, or any other sensitive information to anyone online or to a site you do not know is legitimate.
- Research the person’s photo and profile using online searches to see if the image, name, or details have been used elsewhere. Usually scammers piece together a profile from other content online to sound more believable.
- Take your time and ask lots of questions. Beware if the individual seems too perfect or quickly asks you to leave a dating service or social media site to communicate directly. A lot of times the scammer may promote an unbelievable investment opportunity for you both to make a substantial amount of profit. They may direct you to different sites they have created which promotes the scam.
- Never send money, trade, or invest per the advice of someone you have solely met online. If someone you meet online needs your bank account information to deposit money, they are most likely using your account to carry out other theft and fraud schemes.
- Beware if the individual attempts to isolate you from friends and family or requests inappropriate photos or financial information that could later be used to extort you. A lot of scammers will try to separate you from your support, making you more vulnerable and dependent on them. This can put you in the position to comply with any requests and demands.
- Beware if the individual promises to meet in person but then always comes up with an excuse why he or she can’t. If you haven’t met the person after a few months, for whatever reason, you have good reason to be suspicious. Some scammers might say they are in a career like the construction industry and are engaged in projects outside the U.S. That makes it easier to avoid meeting in person—and more plausible when they ask for money for a medical emergency or unexpected legal fee.
To report a scam to the FBI IC3, please visit www.ic3.gov.







